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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]smashedpootatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was pure light, it lit up my world. Now I feel like the world is darkness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]smashedpootatoes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dealing with this kind of chemistry can be tough, especially when the lines feel so blurred. The bottom line is that he’s in a relationship, and that’s a boundary you’ve got to respect, no matter how intense things feel. Some people are just naturally flirty or overly interested, and it doesn’t always mean they’re romantically into you—it could just be their personality. Or maybe he’s got issues in his relationship, but that’s not your responsibility to figure out or fix. Keep things professional and friendly, but if his behaviour keeps feeling too much or crosses a line, it’s okay to set some boundaries. At the end of the day, you deserve connections that are straightforward and drama-free. Don’t let this take up too much of your energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]smashedpootatoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sounds like such a tough situation, and it’s totally understandable that you’re feeling frustrated and worn out. It’s obvious you care about your boyfriend and value how kind and supportive he’s been in the past, but the way things are now seems really unbalanced. Think about what you truly need from a partner—someone who shares financial responsibilities, helps keep the house in order, and puts effort into the relationship. It might be time to have a really honest conversation with him about how you’re feeling and set some clear expectations, like him finding a job within three months and doing his share of the chores without being asked. Be specific about what needs to change, and make it clear that if he doesn’t step up, you’ll need to rethink the relationship. At the same time, it’s important to stop enabling him—maybe stop lending him your car, covering all the bills, or doing the housework for him. Focus on your own happiness and the life you’re building, and if he’s still not making any effort after all this, it might be worth asking yourself if staying is holding you back from finding a partner who matches your energy and ambition. If breaking up feels like too much right now, you could try taking a break to get some clarity, and don’t be afraid to lean on friends or a therapist for support. At the end of the day, you deserve someone who supports and lifts you up, and it’s okay to recognise when a relationship just isn’t working anymore.

What cheat code for a game is burned into your brain? by Alary_Eye in AskReddit

[–]smashedpootatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The GTA San Andreas Jetpack cheat: L1, L2, R1, R2, UP, DOWN, LEFT, RIGHT, L1, L2, R1, R2, UP, DOWN, LEFT, RIGHT.

For those days when you fancy flying across Las Venturas instead of driving.