1. Massages
2. Sushi
3. Boot camp on Saturday mornings
   

• coincidences
• possibilities
  
• flexibility -- its okay to try an old bad habit once in awhile, to feel the comfort of it, and remember why not to do it anymore
• my kitchen will look fantastic when its done
  

• fabulous wedding on the beach
• having friends there
• the hope of maybe having a beautiful wedding like that one day, with lots of close friends and family, a gorgeous service, and an amazing location
• fantastic neighbors who'll watch my dog happily even at the last minute

• participating in a supportive White anti-racist group, made up mostly of my friends
• really deep comments by students - I think my class is going very well
• great acupuncture treatment
  

• sushi
• L-Word party
• flying through work
• fantastic neighbors
• that I can afford new shoes, even though I can't bring myself to actually buys some
  

• my advisor's giving me first authorship on this paper we'll be presenting and them getting published
• massage
• good therapy session
  

• taught the first class and it was fun!
• house cleaned
• friend got the job she wanted
• advice from a friend about what to do with dad and the inheritance