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A feminist thanksgiving

BERJAYA

Feministing will be taking tomorrow through the weekend off for the holidays. As we all head off to our (chosen and biological) family gatherings, I thought I’d do a lil’ random gratitude shout out to some of the wonderful people and projects in our own little Feministing family and beyond that have been doing such good work this fall…

Thank you to the gods and the erfs, the goddess, and/or the doctors who delivered Jess and Andrew’s little Layla to us safe, sound, and destined for a lot of hilarious holidays with the Valentis.

Thank you to Hollaback, for doing such amazing work to make girls and women feel safer on their streets.

Thank you to Gloria Steinem, for constantly demonstrating that she’s willing to learn, committed to grassroots activism, and really, truly sees young women doing their thang all over this country.

Thank you to the organizers of the SPARK Summit, who created a new model of seizing on the momentum of lots of amazing activists, teachers, and writers to attack a single issue (with lots of intersections, of course).

Thank you to all the feminist men and male allies who are trying to re-imagine a world without violence against women and, even more, where traditional notions of masculinity aren’t so determinative of their lives.

Thank you to Samhita Mukhopadhyay for being my National Women’s Studies Association partner-in-crime and reassuring me I wasn’t totally stupid when almost everything that M. Jacqui Alexander and Chandra Talpade Mohanty said went way over my head. And while I’m at it, thanks to the NWSA folks for wrangling so many smart women in one hotel.

Thank you to the Service Women’s Action Network for standing up for what is right.

Thank you to all of Feministing’s amazing editors, contributors, and columnists, for making it such a force in the world. I’m honored to “be the change” alongside you all.

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What We Missed

File this under badass: Apparently Sarah Palin took notice of Jess’s Washington Post op-ed on fake feminists. She quotes Jess in her forthcoming book.

Recommendation letters may be costing women opportunities.

A sex worker speaks out about her experiences at Good Men Project Magazine: “The more men I talked to, the more sympathetic I felt. I was approaching the biggest epiphany of my life: men had as much anxiety and shame around sex as women did. We were all in this together, and any ideology that couldn’t admit as much was doomed to fail.”

Read about girls and women’s empowerment programs in India via this new report out by the American Jewish World Service.

UNIFEM (part of UN Women) just launched a new program, Safe Cities, in five cities around the world. Each will test new strategies to stop epidemic rates of violence against women and girls in urban areas.

Read up on what it means to be a “pleasure activist” with the always amazing Adrienne Maree Brown.


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Subway flasher gets Hollaback’d

Via Hollaback comes this video of a woman confronting a man who had his penis out, in a condom, and was pressing up against her on an NYC train.

The woman in this video seriously rocks! She turns the tables on her harasser, making it clear she sees what he’s doing, sharing that with the whole train car, and insisting he will be coming with her to see the police. The video’s also a great example of using technology as a tool to fight harassment, as a group of people start taking video and photos of the flasher in question. And I think it’s a testament to the success of programs like Hollaback – I don’t know what inspired this particular woman to stand up to her harasser, but it’s certainly heartening to know this action is part of a larger movement of people who won’t accept this kind of behavior any more.

(You can’t see the penis in question in the video, but the audio may be NSFW.)

Partial transcript after the jump.

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Where’s the Burlesque in “Burlesque”?

Disclaimer: I generally enjoy cheesy dance movies. And although I don’t spoil a lot of this highly complex plot, I do give information about the movie’s narrative. Let me also say that I also love me some Cher. So be forewarned.

Now we have some context for this review of “Burlesque,” the new movie with Cher and Christina Aguilera coming out tomorrow.

At face value, the film is entertaining. It’s appropriately glitzy and gaudy. It’s the kind of movie where you have to ready to suspend disbelief for the sake of a good time or to escape from reality. The story is simple and formulaic, a small-town girl (Aguilera) moves to the big city (in this case Los Angeles) to follow her dreams of super-stardom. She randomly runs into this burlesque lounge run by Cher (“Tess”) and viola, she finds her destiny. In short, she gets a job waitressing there with the hopes of being on stage one day. She gets a chance to audition when one of the dancers gets unintentionally pregnant and so the journey begins.

We find out the dancer is pregnant because she’s in the bathroom throwing up before a performance and Cher asks her what’s going on. There’s no real discussion of the dancer’s options regarding the unintended pregnancy except she says she’s scared to tell the father because she doesn’t know how he’s going to react. It was automatically assumed she was keeping it. In the next scene, Cher is auditioning new dancers. (Later in the film, the pregnant dancer gets a ring from her man and there’s even a wedding. Happily ever after.)

Then we meet the dancers: the heart and soul of the burlesque club. Read More »

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Making a personal choice at the expense of other women

In a recent New York Times article, For Russia’s Poor, Blond Hair is Snippet of Gold, we learn about the international market for blonde hair:

…on a lane where geese waddle through muddy puddles, a brick building holds crate upon crate of this region’s one precious harvestable commodity: human hair, much of it naturally blond.

For the global beauty industry, this is golden treasure.

“Nobody else has this, nobody in the world,” said Aleksei N. Kuznetsov, the building’s owner. “Russian hair is the best in the world.”

Buyers of human hair, most of them small-scale Russian and Ukrainian itinerant operators who sell to hair processors like Mr. Kuznetsov, flock to poor regions like this. Cash in hand, they pay small sums for a head’s worth of tresses sheared from women who often have few economic alternatives.

Although I have never bought blonde human hair, I know what it is like to come to the realization that there is a person on the other side of your personal choice. This moment happened for me a year ago around this time while viewing the film Good Hair. It was the scene where Chris Rock takes a voyage to India to investigate the origins of the hair used for hair extensions in many Black salons. Soon after it is revealed that a lot of the hair comes from Indian women who shaved their heads as a religious sacrifice. None of them were compensated for it or and many did not know that their hair would later be sold.

At the time, I was two years into my locs and I hadn’t worn hair extensions since 2006. But I couldn’t shake the feeling that I had participated in these women being hoodwinked. This is not to make a judgment about religious sacrifice; I simply felt guilty that I had paid nearly $40 a pack for hair that these women didn’t see a dime of even when some of these religious sacrifices were made along with prayers for financial relief or economic security.

I was anxious about offering this anecdote. The issues that lead many black women to seek comfort in long tresses cannot be compared to the decisions made by Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson. Also, I didn’t want to invalidate the struggle of Russian women by implying that they were better off than Indian women because they were being financially compensated for their hair. But despite the anxiety I felt, I wanted to talk about making personal choices at the expense of other people. Although feminism is often synonymous in the US context with respecting women’s choices, sometimes we as feminists make choices that exploit other women. This was tough for me to acknowledge, but learning about the plight of women in foreign countries has broadened my feminist work and enabled me to resolve that hair extensions are no longer an option for me.

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