A good friend of mine posed the question, is someone who has been in more relationships wiser as oppose to someone who hasn’t? That made more wonder for a bit. Initially I began to say, well maybe they would be. More experience would make for more lessons learn correct? And then I thought well not [...]

Dear Cotten Kandi, I am a single mother raising a 7 months old baby boy. I also have a full-time job and although my son’s father babysits while I go to work I think he is using our son as an excuse to not work. This is a man I had an on and off [...]