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Dr. Laura's N-Word Rant: Radio Host Apologizes For Offensive Language (AUDIO)

Huffington Post   |  Danny Shea
First Posted: 08-12-10 06:08 PM   |   Updated: 08-12-10 09:49 PM

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Dr. Laura Schlessinger has apologized after a shocking rant on her radio show this week during which she said the n-word 11 times over the course of five minutes.

In conversation Tuesday with a black female caller who was complaining about her white husband's racist friends and their use of the word, Schlessinger said:

Black guys use it all the time. Turn on HBO and listen to a black comic, and all you hear is n****, n*****, n*****. I don't get it. If anybody without enough melanin says it, it's a horrible thing. But when black people say it, it's affectionate. It's very confusing.

LISTEN (via MediaMatters):

After a break, the caller said she was appalled by Schlessinger's use of the word.

"Oh, then I guess you don't watch HBO or listen to any black comedians," she said. "My dear, the point I am trying to make...we've got a black man as president and we've got more complaining about racism than ever. I think that's hilarious."

Schlessinger and the caller then got into an exchange about the use of the word:

CALLER: Is it OK to say that word? Is it ever OK to say that word?
DR. LAURA: It depends how it's said. Black guys talking to each other seem to think it's ok.
CALLER: But you're not black, they're not black, my husband is white.
DR. LAURA: Oh, I see, so a word is restricted to race. Got it. Can't do much about that.
CALLER: I can't believe someone like you is on the radio spewing out the n***** word, and I hope everybody heard it.
DR. LAURA: I didn't spew out the n***** word!
CALLER: You said "n*****, n*****, n*****" and I hope everybody heard it.
DR. LAURA: Yes they did, and I'll say it again: n*****, n*****, n***** is what you hear on HBO.
[Crosstalk]
DR. LAURA: Why don't you let me finish a sentence? Don't take things out of context. Don't NAACP me, leave them in context.

"If you're that hypersensitive about color and don't have a sense of humor, don't marry outside of your race," Schlessinger said after hanging up with the caller.

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LISTEN (via MediaMatters):

She apologized the next day, opening her show with an apology.

"Yesterday, I did the wrong thing," she said. "I didn't intend to hurt people, but I did. And that makes it the wrong thing to have done. I was attempting to make a philosophical point, and I articulated the "n" word all the way out - more than one time. And that was wrong. I'll say it again - that was wrong."

Schlessinger said she "was so upset [she] could not finish the show."

"I pulled myself off the air at the end of the hour," she said. "I had to finish the hour, because 20 minutes of dead air doesn't work. I am very sorry. And it just won't happen again."

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Dr. Laura Schlessinger has apologized after a shocking rant on her radio show this week during which she said the n-word 11 times over the course of five minutes. In conversation Tuesday with a bla...
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kebushima   11 minutes ago (2:14 AM)
Dr. Laura--we are taking her seriously? The US has a plethora, a gaggle, an absurd number of Dr. X and Dr. Y quick to serve up their racism, homophobia and general all round misanthropy. From Glenn Beck to Sarah Palin--the country would be amusing if it weren't so dangerous.
rightagain99   22 minutes ago (2:03 AM)
Dr. Laura made herself and her race the victim during the call. This is what she tell callers not to do. Shame on your Dr. Laura!
HonestBrokerBoston   25 minutes ago (2:00 AM)
Dr. Laura hasn't got a foot to stand on. She is incapable of putting herself in anyone elses shoes. She is so shallow that she cannot comprehend the amount of woundedness that still exists in some Blacks in this country and the truth of that and the root of it is still not discussed or addressed by whites. She is completely distorting the issue to push her political agenda and the root of the problem is still denying Blacks their reality. Jews, Gays,and whatever other group there is are all now the same, so those groups won't get to talk about their realities either, except she makes allowances for Jews. It's time to rally whites against Blacks. You got your Black president, what else do you want? That's her stance. She's not an intelligent woman. She has neither the patience, understanding nor courage to open the dialogue to a real substantiative discussion on the issue. She makes no space for discussion and therefore no tolerance. It's like the discussion is too hard for her and she's not going to take it anymore. So it's blame the victim time. She is an angry and greedy woman and it is a disgrace that she has been able to continue with even limited success on radio. Someone who is in that much denial is very dangerous in this country. Shes been poisoning the airwaves for years. Well not this time. She has just opened up the dialogue now.
rightagain99   27 minutes ago (1:58 AM)
The caller was not black! I heard the entire call and thought "this is a set up for ratings." Since the caller has not revealed herself on CNN, MSNBC or Fox I will stick with my first thought about her. Color is a hot topic and it increase ratings so Dr. L is just joining the circus.
MaeS   10 minutes ago (2:15 AM)
Of course! It's all a conspiracy to make Dr. Laura lose her job and/or increase her ratings. Why didn't I think of that. Sink or swim, baby!
marysmith1   47 minutes ago (1:38 AM)
Dr. LS talks from a normal common sense. It is sad that most people has no common sense that is why she is in business. There is nothing she said that was so special, rare and not known by a mankind. Not to side with her, America is a racist country, and it is going backward. It is quick someone to charge other for saying the n word. As long as this country has red necks, there will be n words.
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Sesame2009   1 hour ago (1:15 AM)
I wonder how J.ewish Dr. Laura felt about Helen Thomas's, J.ews should go back to Poland and Germany comments. I wonder if she was calling for Helen Thomas's resignation.

If so, I hope people call for Dr. Laura to be put off the air. Using the N...word 11 times is at least as offensive as saying J.ews should go back to Poland and Germany.
MaeS   2 hours ago (12:49 AM)
Why am I not allowed to post anything tonight?!?!
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Moosekilla   2 hours ago (12:47 AM)
Hey, Dont use the "N" word in South Central , LA
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Moosekilla   2 hours ago (12:43 AM)
Im black... and I see most of your POV ...However , she is entitled to an opinion. She is just repeating whats she hears on TV. She is right we are all hypersensitive when it comes to race. But situation like this create opportunity for dialogue. Is it right to use the N word. Depends on what type of black people you say it around. They bubby young professionals might let you slide...but say it in south central you might get your but kicked ...take your pick!
missingwmd   1 hour ago (1:02 AM)
do you allow you kids to do and say everything they hear on tv? so what if she heard it before. she hadn't heard it from the lady she was speaking to and she didn't know how that person felt about it.
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JBoy   36 minutes ago (1:49 AM)
It was the caller who first asked about it.
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Sesame2009   48 minutes ago (1:37 AM)
Sorry, but I don't know of any situation where a White person can call a Black person the N... word.
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JBoy   35 minutes ago (1:50 AM)
How about where a black person can call a black person the N...word?
jentastic   2 hours ago (12:42 AM)
Dr. Laura is rude. The caller made a choice to call. The N word was not used offensively. Dr. Laura did not at any point call anyone a n****r, she was quoting black men who used the word. We are responsible for our own actions. If my husband did something that I didn't like I would deal with it with him, not on a national talk show. DL was guilty of being rude, thats it.
HonestBrokerBoston   1 hour ago (1:22 AM)
Completely misses the point. Dr. Laura in her calculated way was able to work in her political agenda. She does not want the issue of race to come up at all costs. The issue is that there is alot of woundedness with some Blacks and I can't speak to how many, that never gets heard or aired out. They are not given the space to express their feelings and why they hurt. Dr. Laura is a rationalist. She rationalizes her position by suggesting that because of all the Civil rights Acts and Political strides that have come to help Blacks that it's put up and shut up. Avoid the conversation about feelings by Blacks, Gays, but allow Jews though to express theirs for their suffering you can see. What a disgraceful analogy to draw upon that because we have an actually Half Black President that that should suffice so you as a Black are not allowed your reality. the problem is all fixed in her mind. that's the easy way out. No sticky uncomfortable discussions about what makes her squirm. People were not as offended by her using the N word to embolden her point, but I believe they were offended by her deceit in drawing the false conclusions that she had ready to go on the attack with. And yeah she was rude as hell.
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-jaYne   30 minutes ago (1:55 AM)
if we could put ourselves in each others places it won't be too soon...
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ForVivi   24 minutes ago (2:01 AM)
As Olbermann aptly pointed out it was Dr. Laura's commentary after the fact which are most disturbing.
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samaire   2 hours ago (12:42 AM)
She was making an example of how others can say the N word and not white people. She told the caller she was too sensitve an if you dont like race comments dont marry a white guy. Im not a fan of Dr. Laura but I dont think she said anything wrong. The woman called her up for advice and golly , gee whiz, she gave it to her.
MaeS   2 hours ago (12:46 AM)
Isn't that setting the bar a little low for white people? Like you couldn't possibly expect acceptable behavior from them, so if bad behavior bothers you, just stay away?
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miamivalleyjournal   1 hour ago (1:08 AM)
Are you meaning to imply that a "white guy" is incapable of not making "race comments"? I do not believe that is true.
HonestBrokerBoston   40 minutes ago (1:45 AM)
You need to do some serious reading. I love how you see it in this nice little wrapped up present with a bow on it. We are talking about peoples feelings and the caller was trying to express them. Our culture is very bad at letting people express their feelings and air things out. The caller was not asking for Dr. Laura's advice she called to disagree and express how it is from her point of view and the "good " Dr. wouldn't allow it. Dr. Laura doesn't want to talk about the realities of how Black people feel. You know when they start throwing out the too sensitive card, she and the likes of her are squirming with discomfort about their own feelings. This is denial in it's most perfect and insidious form.
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000005   38 minutes ago (1:47 AM)
I think anyone with half a brain knows that the n word is taboo and should not be used period. If blacks choose to use it then be it, they have their own lingo and it's not ours to take just to prove a point. The same would apply for the term wet backs -- it's okay for a latin person to use it but not for any other race to use it. So, bottom line, SHE is wrong and she should never use that word on the air again, period.
missingwmd   2 hours ago (12:38 AM)
hey white people! A piece of advise. if you wanna use the n word so bad, only use it around black people where you have already heard it come out of their mouths individually. just because somebody said it on tv or in a rap song doesn't mean you can say it to random black people you don't know. just a word of advice.
jentastic   2 hours ago (12:53 AM)
But just saying the word is different than calling someone a n*****. You know that.
missingwmd   1 hour ago (12:59 AM)
no it's not to black people who don't use it at all under any circumstance. you are taking a chance by letting that word come out of your mouth whether calling somebody that word or just using it in general because all black people don't use it or call other black people that. I just can't understand why white people wanna say it so bad anyway. find something else to insult or offend people with.
RavenBassLady   1 hour ago (12:59 AM)
Think about this. WHY do you NEED to say that word? To black folks? Think about it.
MaeS   13 minutes ago (2:12 AM)
I will try this again, though my posts keep getting sucked into the vortex.

Anyway, first off, I agree. Know your black people, white folks!

Secondly, for all you white people that claim that you are being excluded from black culture in a prejudicial fashion because you are not *allowed* to use the n word without upsetting people, ask yourselves this: Have you ever actually made an attempt to participate in black culture? Do you attend a black church? Live in a black neighborhood? Go to a black college? Work in a black office? If you haven't, then you aren't being excluded, you are being lazy.
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YoYo smith   2 hours ago (12:27 AM)
Ok, Jade you called the wrong doc on this one. If you've ever listen to her... she tells it like it is!
Unfortunately, I have to agree with her, even though she did take it over board. So I too am a black woman and my husband is white. You do have to have a sense of humor and also learn to play psychology 101... in other words turn the tables or do what hurts people most... IGNORE!

So as others have stated if you haven't expressed to your husband that you don't care for the jokes, or more so... you don't like the neighbor at all, so the jokes is putting another nail in the coffin then holding it in is just going to stress you out and cause a problem with your husband for something his knows anything about... I express to my husband all the time, I don't like or am uncomfortable with this or that person or this or that place and vice versa.... and this why we are able to joke about both races and have open conversations and/or disagreements... Jade communication with your husband is a must and calling Dr. Laura is not the answer!
HonestBrokerBoston   52 minutes ago (1:33 AM)
A Black appeaser. Except the unexceptable as to not make waves in a White world. To except that your husband may make uneducated remarks and not learn from them is not the way forward but a rationalization and cowardice on your part. TWo wrongs don't make a right. Sounds like you're the one making the compromise to keep the marriage together. Very sad.
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JBoy   28 minutes ago (1:57 AM)
I don't know if you're married or not, but marriage is all about compromise.
Mr Angry   2 hours ago (12:14 AM)
Dr. Laura is an accomplished professional who during her radio talk show career, has rendered sound advice to those of us in need.

That said, it's time for Dr. Laura to go.

For the record, I do not watch HBO or Comedy Central nor do I use the N-word. Just because a comedian uses the N-word does not make him or her funny. It makes them a joke.

Dr. Laura's irresponsible tirade was a failed attempt at describing the phrase "do as I say; not as I do." This woman has a doctorate and the best advice she could give the caller was "Don't marry outside of your race." Perhaps she feels it best that we return to the years of Jim Crow. To be clear, this is not the first time this so called "doctor" has made anti semitic comments on the air. Dr. Laura is the paragon of insensitivity.

Dr. Laura should be ashamed not for what she said, but for the reasons she said it. The sad truth is that she isn't. It is never OK to use the N-word or any other racially charged language, even to prove a point. Those people who do (regardless of their race) are fairly ignorant and short-sited, Dr. Laura especially. As a Jewish American, she should have known better.

Dr. Laura "NAACPed" herself.
jentastic   2 hours ago (12:44 AM)
That wasn't a tirade. She was being firm and rude. It's HER show. People make the choice to call her. All they have to do is not call. That said, she should be off the air.
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ASMom   2 hours ago (12:04 AM)
I listened to Dr. Laura occasionally a few years back but stopped because I couldn't stand the ways she talked to people! She was just cutting and condescending and rude! I often wondered why people kept calling her show when they stood a very good chance of being ridiculed on the air. Then I discovered and politics and now I refuse to listen to her. Regarding this rant, she is a nasty woman but she is not stupid and she had to know what the response would be. She needs to stop and think before she opens her mouth!

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