Thursday, January 28, 2010
So...
I'm off on a trip, including some research. I generally do not talk about where I am going, but I will tell you that I'm making a presentation and I have two meetings with people who know the subject I am researching. (I admit I'm taking a few days off, too.)
I have a story I have been working on. Not an outing, per se, but a story about one of Outrage's subjects.
In the meantime, thanks for both your note of support over my dad's death and the many notes from folks around the country who have seen Outrage for the first time.
See you back here soon.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Big Day
A controversial documentary about homosexuality in politics is coming out on DVD this Tuesday. “Outrage” caused a stir this spring when filmmaker Kirby Dick named a number of lawmakers he suspected of being homosexual, despite their public denials.
There were lighter moments, too, like when interviewees overwhelmingly agreed that Republicans, straight or gay, are better in bed than their Democratic counterparts.
Friday, January 15, 2010
Outrage not nominated for a GLAAD award
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I was surprised to see that Outrage was not nominated for a GLAAD award. After all, the film is about the media conspiracy to protect anti-gay politicians. In fact, the project was important enough that GLAAD's president at the time was interviewed for it.Here's the GLAAD statement sent to me:
The GLAAD Media Awards are about elevating and promoting the fair, accurate and inclusive stories of LGBT issues, people and allies that have increased awareness, understanding and respect for our lives and our pursuit of equality.
Outrage is a fine movie and an important one that focused attention on anti-LGBT politicians whose efforts put our community and our families in harm’s way. But the GLAAD Media Awards aren't the Academy Awards, they are about highlighting media that move America by telling the stories of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people - not those who run from who they are.
The decision to come out as LGBT is an extremely personal one that benefits the individual and the people who know them. While there is certainly an argument that is made for speculating on the sexual orientation of anti-LGBT politicians in an effort to hold them accountable for the harms they inflict on our community, that sort of speculation doesn't promote awareness, understanding and respect for our lives and thus does not fit the criteria for the GLAAD Media Awards.
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Back in town
I'm back home in DC and getting back to work on the blog.I had a nice experience the other day. I was out with a friend and went to breakfast at a well-known place in Northern Virgina, Bob and Edith's. While I was there a man complimented me on my work and when we went to leave, discovered he had picked up the check. By the time I learned it he was gone. So, I'll thank him here.
Monday, January 04, 2010
Another pause
Someone asked me over the weekend if I had a New Year's resolution. I hadn't thought of one. Later, I realized one resolution I could make is to post here more often. With more frequent postings, I will be able to explain a bit more about what I am working on without too many details being spilled as to put a case at risk.I also thought jury duty, which was supposed to begin today, would be a good opportunity to catch up here a bit (they have wireless) but then yesterday afternoon I got word that my father had died in his sleep in Las Vegas. Like the current movie of the same name, my relationship with my dad can be summed up in two words: "It's Complicated." He was, in his own way, a very good man. As I told my uncle last evening, one of the greatest lessons my father gave me was to demonstrate how to be good brother. I didn't realize this until last night, but my father's relationship with his uncle is a gift he gave me for which I am very grateful.
I'll be away a bit. See you soon.
Friday, January 01, 2010
It's gonna be a fun decade
Florida GOP leader faces revolt by top fundraisers:
A dozen of Florida's top Republican fundraisers called for the resignation of their state party chairman in a letter late Tuesday, saying without his removal Republicans had a 'diminished' chance for success in a crucial election next year.I wonder what Charlie thinks of the mess.
'There must be a change in leadership to successfully execute the strategic plan for victory in 2010 election cycle for Republicans,' according to the letter.
Florida Republican Chairman Jim Greer has resisted several resignation calls this year from party activists. 'He intends to serve the remainder of his term,' Greer's spokeswoman said Wednesday.
Ensign confronted on CNN
Looks like Ensign will not be leaving his sex scandal in the last decade.
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Let's just say...
Mark Kirk's latest HRC Rating is 89%. In fact, in the 110th Congress he was the number two GOPer in the House in support of LGBT equality, right behind Chris Shays. Not bad at all. Shays was defeated in the November 2008 election, meaning that Mark Kirk is the most pro gay Republican in the federal government. I don't agree with a lot of Kirk's stands, but I do agree with him on gay rights. It's interesting to see Kirk's rating at 89% and Jerry Nadler's at 90%. (Update: I think I did a poor job of sounding as sarcastic as I meant this. Of course Nadler is one of our greatest heros! And Kirk's support of Don't Ask, Don't Tell is inexcusable.)
GOP candidate runs ad citing ‘rumors’ opponent is gay | Raw Story:
In a sign that the 2010 primary season is beginning to heat up, and is likely to get ugly, a Republican candidate for the Senate has 'accused' a rival Republican of being a closeted homosexual.
Andy Martin, a journalist from Illinois with a long history of controversial anti-Semitic remarks and the man credited with starting the rumor that Barack Obama is a Muslim, released an ad Monday in which he cited 'rumors' that Rep. Mark Kirk (R-IL) is gay.
'I am fighting for the facts about Mark Kirk,' Martin, who is running for Obama's old seat, says in the ad. 'Illinois Republican leader Jack Roeser says there is a 'solid rumor that Kirk is a homosexual.' Roeser suggests that Kirk is part of a Republican Party homosexual club. Lake County Illinois Republican leader Ray True says Kirk has surrounded himself with homosexuals. Mark Kirk should tell Republican voters the truth.'
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Let the stupidity begin
This morning at breakfast I asked my friend "How long will it take until there are stupid new rules that will do nothing to protect us?"The answer: Not very.
New York Times:
Less than 24 hours after the terrorist attempt, travelers at airports around the world, from Frankfurt to Rochester, N.Y., began experiencing heightened screening in security lines. Even as airlines began limiting United States-bound passengers to just one carry-on bag, travelers will feel the most significant changes during the actual flights.
According to a statement posted Saturday morning on Air Canada’s Web site, the Transportation Security Administration will severely limit the behavior of both passengers and crew during flights in United States airspace — restricting movement in the final hour of flight. Late Saturday morning, the T.S.A. had not yet included this new information on its own Web site.
“Among other things,” the statement in Air Canada’s Web site read, “during the final hour of flight customers must remain seated, will not be allowed to access carry-on baggage, or have personal belongings or other items on their laps.”
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Happy Holidays
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Sorry, Charlie
Until recently, it was assumed that Charlie Crist, Florida's gay Governor, would take an easy walk from Florida to the US Senate in next November's election. Until Charlie's support started to crumble around him, that is.A Rasmussen poll from last week shows that Crist's primary opponent, Mark Rubio, brought the race to a dead heat: 43% to 43%. In an effort to court the conservative wing of the Florida GOP, Rubio is running hard to the right. A hard right wing Senate candidate would be a much harder sell to the people of Florida than a popular Governor who enjoys an approval rating of 68% of Democrats!
As if that is not enough, Lincoln Diaz-Balart and Mario Diaz-Balart (pictured), brothers who serve in Congress, have withdrawn their endorsement of Charlie and Rubio continues to press hard. Florida's GOP is conservative and Charlie pitted against Rubio could mean that the Governor could lose his primary election and be out of a job at the end of next year. Crist had to make a choice between running for Governor or US Senator. Perhaps it he picked the wrong one.
In the report, Lincoln Diaz-Balart explained that Crist had 'left us [the two brothers] no alternative and he knows why.'
Do tell Lincoln, do tell.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Huck goes pro-gay
Andre Bauer gets Huckabee's backing:
Lt. Gov. Andre Bauer is being backed by former Republican presidential candidate Mike Huckabee in the GOP race for governor.I outed Bauer in August.
Huckabee, who served as governor of Arkansas before finishing second in S.C. Republican presidential primary in 2008, endorsed Bauer in a fundraising letter for the lieutenant governor and Huck-PAC, Huckabee's political action committee.
'Andre Bauer is a champion we can believe in,' Huckabee wrote. 'He has fought for the people of South Carolina since the day he was elected to the House of Representatives in 1996. As Lt. Governor, he has ruled against every single proposed tax increase, saving the people of South Carolina $2 billion.'"
Friday, December 18, 2009
Comment system change
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Another marriage ruined by the gays
The Broward Palm Beach News has been checking in on political lovebirds Charlie Crist and Carole Rome:
A Crist-Miss Story: Florida's First Couple Celebrates First Anniversary... Separately:
Crist still followed through with the marriage, of course, but in the year since, the pair have rarely been seen together. Most recently, Crist spent the evening of their first anniversary in Palm Beach's Mar-a-Lago at a March of Dimes fundraiser, with wife Carole nowhere in sight, according to page2live.com.
This after a year in which Rome bounced between visits to her kids in New York and her home on Fisher Island, while Crist stayed in Tallahassee or his home in Tampa Bay. Remember, Crist worked right through the couple's honeymoon.
But come on! The first anniversary? You two aren't even trying anymore. And why should you? If Crist is gay -- or if he's just a commitment-phobic straight guy who likens Burger King funnel cake sticks to a 'beignet' -- he shouldn't feel political pressure to get married.
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Twenty years
I was there. From Outweek, December 24, 1989:
Friday, December 11, 2009
The Women
As the late Rodger McFarlane said says in Outrage: "I know what they have to say in public and I actually kind of admire them for being able to give that performance, I'm sure I couldn't. But, that's some wierd shit."
Jenny Sanford wouldn't take the role.South Carolina's first lady files for divorce - washingtonpost.com:
The wife of embattled South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford (R) announced Friday morning she is filing for divorce, saying in a statement that she decided to dissolve her marriage after 'many unsuccessful efforts at reconciliation.'
Wednesday, December 09, 2009
No gay governor in South Carolina
They'd rather have the corrupt guy stay in power:"We can't impeach for hypocrisy. We can't impeach for arrogance. We can't impeach an officeholder for his lack of leadership skills," said Rep. James Harrison, the Columbia Republican who headed the panel.Can't impeach hypocrisy? Well, at least Andre Bauer is safe.
It may shock you to learn...

...that an anti-gay pol has been caught in a sex scandal:
Detective Bethany McDermott's affidavit says Jetton went to the woman's home around 9 p.m. Nov. 15 with two bottles of wine, which he allegedly opened alone in her kitchen. After drinking some of the wine and watching football, the statement said, the victim "began ‘fading' in and out and remembered losing consciousness several times."One of BlogActive's biggest fans pointed out that I should have included this snippet from an article in the Kansas City Star:
The affidavit says Jetton and the alleged victim agreed on a safe word - "green balloons" - that could be used to stop sexual relations during the evening.
Instead, the affidavit says, Jetton hit her on the face and choked her before engaging in intercourse. Jetton allegedly said, "You should have said 'green balloons,' before leaving her home the next morning.Upodate 2: Good. He should pay a price. BREAKING: Jetton to close doors of consulting firm.
Sunday, December 06, 2009
Charlie's Angels?

Florida governor’s child health recording directed callers to sex chat line:
In spite of government claims to the contrary, no horny girls are standing by to help your child get health insurance.
It's a state-sponsored blooper for the ages: for two months, a recording by Florida Governor Charlie Crist played when parents called KidCare to get advice on health policies for their children. In the audio, Crist gave a number to call for more information. As it happened, that number was a little off.
Instead of details on child health care, callers were redirected to this: 'Hey there, sexy guy. Welcome to an exciting new way to go live, one on one, with hot, horny girls waiting right now to talk to you.'
Friday, December 04, 2009
Keeping the gay guy out of the governor's mansion
State lawmakers on a panel considering whether to impeach Gov. Mark Sanford cut from their debate most of the accusations of ethical wrongdoing over his travel and campaign reimbursements. Members of the panel, in its first series of hearings concerning the impeachment of Mr. Sanford, a Republican, unanimously decided that 28 of 37 civil ethics charges levied would not be part of their discussion. Lawmakers said the accusations, even if proved, did not rise to a level that merited impeachment. Lawmakers will consider only Mr. Sanford’s use of state planes and the events surrounding his five-day disappearance in June.It's a great strategy for Sanford's supporters. Diminish the number of charges, keep him in office, and keep the gay guy out of the governor's mansion.
NY State Senator outed
Another self-loathing, community-hating politician. A Democrat, no less.
NY Daily News:
"After voting 'no' on the gay marriage bill yesterday, Sen. Carl Kruger exited the Senate chamber and walked straight into the buzzsaw that was Allen Roskoff and Corey Johnson.
The two outspoken gay advocates stunned onlookers by heckling the Brooklyn Democrat, publicly calling his sexuality into question and threatening to support a primary candidate against him in 2010.
I reached the duo, who arrived in Albany Tuesday night in time to see the Assembly pass the marriage bill for the third time since 2007, as they were en route home to New York City. Roskoff proudly confirmed he and Johnson 'told Carl off.'
'We screamed at him,' Roskoff said, before launching into a litany of unsubstantiated accusations regarding the unmarried senator's personal life.
'We really let him have it. We made it clear to him that he didn't hear the end of it. Right outside the Senate chamber. He wouldn't answer our questions.'
Witnesses said Kruger did not respond to Roskoff and Johnson. Kruger aide Jason Koppel said the senator 'doesn't talk about his personal life,' and deemed the allegations 'not even worthy of comment.'"
Wednesday, December 02, 2009
Off again...
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Named a top political site
Top 25 Gay Rights & Activism Blogs:
17. PageOneQ : This tireless news source combines timely articles from across the web into one digestible package. While it does not invite readers to rank their collection, they nevertheless offer an easy-to-navigate interface to make browsing for stories of interest quick and painless. Most external links only include a headline, though the bigger stories and reader picks come accompanied with introductory paragraphs.
18. BlogActive : Direct from D.C., this no-nonsense blog focuses on politics and politicians integral to gay civil rights. Editor Michael Rogers sheds light on how many elected officials who stringently deny equality for the GLBT community yet find themselves caught dallying in homosexual affairs. He urges all of those in leadership positions to embrace who they are and be honest with their constituents – and, more importantly, themselves – about their identity, sexual or otherwise.
Congratulations, Andre!
In it's yearly "Worst of" issue, the local weekly paper in the state capital, The Columbia City Paper, honored Bauer with an award for his response to my outing of him, Congratulations on your Worst Political Counter Move award. Here's the post from the paper:
Tech issue resolved
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Outing Priests
Phil Attey, a longtime activist and communications pro in the LGBT community, has kicked off ChurchOuting.org, a site that collects information on closeted gay priests in the DC area (the site is also taking information on straight priests who have affairs).Folks have asked me what I think of an effort to reveal the hidden sexual orientation of clergy members. I certainly think exposing Haggard was a good idea. Applying my thought process on outing political players, I think it's a good thing to expose hypocrisy like this when the clergy are leading the fight against us. I am not sure where I fall in terms of outing clergy who are merely silent on the issue.
A few months after I started this site, Keith Boykin and Jasmyne Cannick wrote about homophobic Black pastors and asked in the blog post if each of them might be gay. It generated controversy at the time. I know that ChurchOuting.org will as well.
Monday, November 16, 2009
Militias
Militias: Patriots or extremists? – amFIX - CNN.com Blogs:
Armed with a small arsenal of semi-automatic weapons, the question that crosses your mind at one of these exercises is: training for what?
That depends on who you ask.
Our visit with the militia is the first installment of our three part series on something called 'the Patriot movement.'
Is Charlie Crist too, um, moderate?
Could this be a David Dreier situation? Remember when Dreier was denied the Majority Leader position, at least partly because he is a closeted gay man. At the time Dreier's supporters put out the message that 'he was to moderate for the caucus' line':Raw Story:
After earlier reporting that Rep. David Dreier (R-CA) was expected to succeed House Majority Leader Tom DeLay (R-TX) as majority leader, the decision has been reversed. House Majority Whip Roy Blunt (R-MO) will instead take up DeLay's post.
Sources tell RAW STORY that Dreier -- who was a shoo-in for the position -- was nixed for various reasons, in part because his sexuality would raise ire within the party ranks.
More recently, we saw the GOP push aside a moderate candidate in exchange for a much more conservative candidate who was not even on the GOP ballot line.New York Times:
The candidate, Dede Scozzafava, said she was suspending her campaign in the face of collapsing support and evidence that she was heading for a loss in a three-way race on Tuesday involving Douglas L. Hoffman, running on the Conservative Party line, and Bill Owens, a Democrat.Well, it looks the crazies have another moderate in mind, Charlie Crist. I have a feeling that Charlie may not score any points with the right wing in Florida, after all, he's like Dreier -- you know, too moderate.
Ms. Scozzafava had been under siege from conservative leaders because she supported gay rights and abortion rights and was considered too liberal on various fiscal issues.
New York Times, Florida Republican Becomes a Right-Wing Target:Now, as a season of tea parties and fractious town hall meetings has energized the right wing, that embrace has endangered what once seemed like Mr. Crist’s surefire bid for a Senate seat and put Florida at the center of a debate about the future of the Republican Party.Then there is this bit from Barney in Outrage, where he talks about the meaning of 'moderate':
Republican pragmatists argue that to take back its majority, the party has to appeal to a broader range of voters, even if it means running candidates who might stray from the party orthodoxy.
"Sure, just like I marched in last year’s moderate pride parade and went to a moderate bar last night."If Charlie is the nominee he is 'moderate' (in the traditional sense) enough that he will undoubtedly be victorious on Election Day. If Rubio is the nominee, then the race is on.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Marry Poppins
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
8,400 days of 'out'
Haven't posted as I've been super busy on some projects and a handful of new cases. Currently, there are a total of 27 cases in my research file and that is just elected officials!Today is a very interesting day for me. I've been "out" exactly one-half of my life. Of course, it's hard to say "I came out on November 10" but I pretty much did. In 1986 I told my closest friend I was gay... It was two days before my 23rd birthday. Today is two days before my 46th birthday. Do the math. We're talking about 16,800 days total, 8,400 of which I have been "out."
Just thought it was interesting.










